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Pearl etiquette for formal occasions


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Pearls are a big hit at weddings, funerals, and other ceremonial occasions.
What I'm wondering about is
Rules and manners for each situation
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Pearls give a ladylike impression without being too flashy, making them ideal for formal occasions such as weddings and funerals.
So what you're probably wondering about are the rules and etiquette for each situation, right?
This time, we will introduce the etiquette for wearing pearls in formal situations.

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centreEtiquette for formal occasions

Pearl necklaces have become a staple for formal occasions such as weddings and funerals. However, that doesn't mean you can wear any kind of pearl. Which pearls should you use for which occasion? What size should they be? What is the appropriate length? You must have many questions. We will explain the etiquette for wearing pearl necklaces in formal occasions.

1. What are the classic pearl items?
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In the past, when people purchased pearls, they would often purchase a three-piece set consisting of a necklace, earrings, and ring.Nowadays, the standard set is a two-piece necklace and earrings.The size of earrings or pierced earrings should be the same as that of the necklace. When wearing mourning clothes for a funeral, it is better to wear a direct-attached type rather than a dangling type. Of course, if you have a pearl ring, please wear it together. However,Don't wear flashy things at condolence eventsSo, try to choose one with fewer diamonds.

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2. The size of the pearls and the length of the necklace
パールネックレスの長さの比較
The easiest thing to consider when choosing pearls is the size.The standard size of Akoya pearls is 8.0mm to 8.5mm. However, the key points to consider when choosing a size will vary depending on the height and figure of the person wearing it, and the number of years they will be worn.If you plan to wear it for a long time, we recommend choosing one size larger.
  • ● For those with narrow shoulders and small stature: 8.0mm to 8.5mm
  • ● For people of average height and build: 8.5mm to 9.0mm
  • For those looking for a larger size: 9.0mm to 9.5mm
This is what we recommend at our store.
Akoya pearl necklaces are around 10mm at most, and anything over 9mm becomes expensive due to its rarity. In that case, many people choose South Sea pearls, so please use this as a reference.

Also, although it is less well known,The length of the necklace is also important.If it's too short it will feel cramped, and if it's too long it will look sloppy.The best length is one that comes just below the base of the collarbone.The general length is about 42cm, about 40cm for those with a slim neck, and about 45cm for those with a fuller neck, but we recommend that you have your measurements taken at the store when purchasing.

At Houjudo, we measure your neck and carefully braid each piece by hand after you place your order. And if your neck grows in the future, don't worry. We give you the extra beads, so if you bring them back, we can adjust the length and re-braid it. Of course, this is free of charge as part of our aftercare service, so don't worry.

3. Recommended types of pearls for each occasion
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If you are buying a pearl necklace for the first time, we recommend Akoya pearls. This is because they can be worn in most formal situations, such as weddings and funerals. We will also explain the various types of pearls that are suitable for other occasions such as weddings and funerals.

◆ Celebrations such as weddings and entrance ceremonies
Weddings are becoming more casual every year, and the type of pearls you choose is not as strict as it used to be. Since it is a celebratory occasion, please enjoy fashion by dressing up in a gorgeous outfit. However,Don't be more flashy than the bride, who is the main attraction.Please be careful.
Akoya pearlsis a classic, elegant and ladylike atmosphere.White South Sea pearlsMany of them are large, giving a more lustrous impression.Golden PearlIt is elegant yet stylish, adding a touch of glamour to it, making it a class above the rest.Black PearlIt is actually OK to wear it as a formal dress. Black pearls with a peacock color and luster will make you look chic and mature. However, if you wear it with a black suit, it will be mistaken for a condolence event, so be careful.
The shape of the beadsroundis more formal,BaroqueYou can play around with the length and have fun with two or three strands, or even long ones. Like a gold necklace and pearl necklace.Can be combined with other itemsPlease enjoy it without being too serious.

◆ Condolences at funerals and wakes
Contrary to celebrations, condolences are a solemn affair. It is best to keep your personality to a minimum. So a simple string of Akoya or black pearls is recommended. Please refer to the following for the general criteria for appropriate pearls.
  • ● The shape is round (no baroque)
  • The length should be appropriate for a single strand (double strands and long strands are not allowed).
  • ●Colors are basically white, gray, and black (Akoya pearls or black pearls)
  • ● Piercings and earrings must be direct-type (dangling earrings are not allowed)
  • The beads should not be too large (as they will look too showy).


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Pearls are jewelry that can be worn for many years. They are often passed down from mother to daughter, and from daughter to grandchild, so you want to choose them carefully because they are important items. We have posted a detailed article on how to choose pearls, so please take a look.

▼How to choose pearls




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We also introduce various other topics about pearls in our special columns.
Please feel free to use this as a reference!



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